Open with a values check, confirm goals, and assign roles. Run a first pass to map positions, then a second pass to explore needs and trade-offs. Close with commitments, personal insights, and a tiny experiment to try before the next session.
Well-crafted prompts balance specificity and openness. Name the stakes, define a desired outcome, and add one complicating constraint, like budget, timing, or customer impact. The right tension pulls authentic reactions, revealing habits to reinforce and blind spots to address through practice.
Start with breathing, posture resets, or sentence stems like, “What I need right now is…” Quick rituals settle nerves and invite honesty. The point is readiness, not perfection, so participants enter simulations present, grounded, and willing to experiment with new choices.
Use visible countdowns and chimes to create urgency without pressure. Announce halfway points to encourage a pivot: ask a genuine question, summarize, or propose a next step. The clock becomes a supportive coach, steering attention toward progress and shared clarity.
Immediately after each round, capture one behavior to keep and one to alter. Invite observations from the observer, then agreement on a micro-commitment. Short debriefs transform experiences into habits by anchoring insight to specific language, gestures, and decision points.